Having our oldest child leave for college was a huge adjustment for our family - our whole dynamic changed. I remember feeling so empty - a feeling confirmed one morning when I glanced down the hallway and saw no light in her bedroom.
Poor Brian - he was happy for Meghan, but missed his little girl. And, he had no idea how to deal with me! In his infinite male way - he wanted to fix it! I had to tell him, "I am just sad. I won't stay this way forever, but for right now, it's okay for me to be sad." Bless his heart!
We have come along way in our new life as the parents of a college student. We have survived the first goodbyes, the first hysterical phone call, the first college paper, etc. And, we survived the first trip home! Yes, in our house, the rules still apply!
And, now, the roller coaster continues. Meghan is so excited for spring break and home cooked meals, a bigger bed, someone else to do laundry, her own room, and time to do nothing. Brian and I are smarter parents and know now that she will spend more time catching up with friends than with us!
When she leaves again, I will be sad and so will Brian - but for now, we will cherish the time we have with her for we know it won't last forever.
